Can you have a relationship that is stronger than your own flesh and blood?

 

Over the past 50 years, the American family has slowly—but unmistakably—changed. Some of those changes have been shaped by cultural shifts, economic realities, evolving religious views, and advances in technology. Some have strengthened families, while others have presented new challenges.

 

For example, the belief that women were expected to stay home and care for the children and household is no longer viewed the same way it once was. The growth of the middle class has also shaped our nation economically. The list of changes could go on and on.

 

Yet one thing has not changed: relationships—whether with family or friends—are deeply important. They matter so much that, in the beginning, God said, “It is not good for man to be alone.” That statement is powerful when we remember that throughout creation, God would make something, pause, look upon it, and call it “good.” But when He saw that man was alone, He declared that it is not good for man to be alone. In doing so, God revealed the importance of relationship—whether through family or friendship.

 

To say we need each other is an obvious understatement. But even greater than our need for one another is the truth that we should want to be with one another. Of all the people on earth I could spend time with, I choose my wife. Why? Because we share a deep relationship—one that does not drain life from each other, but brings life to each other. As children of God, that life flows naturally.

 

So whether our relationships are with family, friends, or acquaintances, people matter. We are called to bring life to those around us. This issue of Lifesigns focuses on relationships that can be as strong as family—or perhaps even stronger. I hope you enjoy it.